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RedSatinDoll
Tex, chapter 2 of Thompson's book "The Whole Equation" (available in the film studies sections of fine bookstores everywhere *lol* - I think it's out in paperback now, but the hardcover version has a photo of Nicole on the back jacket, which is why I picked the book up originally) covers his feelings/opinions regarding Nicole Kidman's performance in The Hours, her "performance" at the Oscars, and why he thinks The Hours is a good film but ultimately far less a masterpiece than the novel Mrs. Dalloway - and why even great films in general can't measure up to great novels. He also confesses (with some apparent embarrassment or discomfort) that he is a fan of Nicole (I don't recall if he uses the term "fan" or not) beyond simply respecting her work, but drawn by what he calls her "mystique", etc. (I didn't buy the book, by the way - I simply stood in the bookstore and read the chapter. lol.gif)

His book "Nicole Kidman" is coming out in September; there's a thread for it here in the Inbox (forgive me I couldn't locate it - Prof. Skanky, please?) I have no idea if it is meant to be principally a biography or a work of film studies/analysis/opinion.

Another member here was kind enough to send me an interview with Thompson in which he talks about his (varied and very interesting) career as a writer; I shall look for that article so I can post the link.

The use of the word "bimbo" in reference to Nicole goes back to yet another interview (*searching, searching*) in which he praises her recent film roles (including The Human Stain, one of my all-time faves) but then can't resist referrring to his perception of her (prior to her divorce) as a "bimbo" - i.e., who was this "bimbo", this Mrs. So-and-so who just seemed to come out of nowhere and proved herself as an actress with these stunning performances?

No doubt he meant it in a jesting, offhand manner, but he ignores the fact that her career dates back to her teens, and before coming to the US she was already an award-winning actress in Australia with several acclaimed performances (Vietnam, Bankok Hilton) under her belt by the time she was in her early 20's. It also ignores her pre-divorce performances in To Die For and Portrait of a Lady, amoungst others.

All of which I understand - when To Die For came out my initial reaction was "Oh, she's so-and-so's wife, but what has she done since...Dead Calm that I would really care about?" (Never mind that I'd seen almost none of her films in the interim.) We all know about the uphill battle she faced there, which she parodied beautifully on her turn as guest host on SNL, and which the interviewers threw at her at nauseum. "So, how are you going to make people forget you're Mrs ---?" ("Not by having to answer that ridiculous question for only the 1,000th time - in one day.")

What I really take issue with is the fact that Mr. Thompson is so uncomfortable with the notion that he is a "fan" of Nicole's, by the very dynamics of "fandom" if you will, (which may or may notinclude elements or romantic or sexual attraction or idealization, or an inexplicable emotional identification with the actor or on-screen roles) that he feels the need to denigrate both her intelligence and her sexuality in a single blow. (Can you imagine anyone calling DeNiro, Pacino, or Penn "a bimbo"?)

Perhaps gender is part of the difference. Yes, I can sympathize on some level with Mr. Thompson's plight - I find that being a "fan" can be strange, embarrassing, emotional, irrational, highly feminized, etc etc. It can also be pleasurable, and a way to connect with others who feel similarly. In any case, my tendancy is to denegrate myself rather than Nicole (it isn't Nicole's fault that I "dig" her, to use the '60's phrase. Why should I put HER down for my own emotional states?) Perhaps in part because my fandom arises from emotional identification with qualities her characters bring forth on screen, in which I see echoes of my own life, situation and personality, or of people I know and love. Whereas to Mr. Thompson, Nicole will always be the mysterious "other" (female) rather "self" (male). And that "other" is invariably identified with those qualities we wish we possessed - and those we wish we did not, everything messy and emotional and irrational within ourselves.

(As I probably became incoherent, oh, sometime around the beginning of this post, I suppose it's far past time I stopped.)


QUOTE(bywayoftexas @ Jul 14 2006, 11:06 PM)
red, no need for formalities...tex will do nicely.  lol.gif  yes, go back to the interviews with charlie rose.  the daldry interview link is on page 2.  he said he was actually worried for nicole's well being in the hours because she "drowns" herself in the film.  it seemed to go along with the discussion although i know nothing about thompson.  can someone point me in the right direction so i can learn a little more?
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kiki
QUOTE(RedSatinDoll @ Jul 19 2006, 03:41 AM)
We all know about the uphill battle she faced there, which she parodied beautifully on her turn as guest host on SNL, and which the interviewers threw at her at nauseum.  "So, how are you going to make people forget you're Mrs ---?" ("Not by having to answer that ridiculous question for only the 1,000th time - in one day.")


i think we're all waay past this question as she's fully established now- on her own terms actually. great analysis red. thumbsup.gif i find it quite idiotic that people take such offense in admitting that they're a fan of someone. same goes for the detractors who i always have a suspicion on. happy.gif anyway, i read an article about how someone lands a vanity fair cover. quite interesting actually. it mentions nicole and how she's mastered this game. i don't think the title necessarily applies to her (supported by the fact that the author himself said she does not reveal anything but it always works) read this:

How To Sell Your Soul for the Cover of Vanity Fair!
Bill Robinson
Mon Jul 10, 1:04 AM ET


Like most people, I don't often think about Hilary Swank. Or her husband Chad Lowe. I've met them a couple times in the course of work, and they seemed lovely. So it was surprising when my computer started insisting I read about their marriage. Suddenly, I couldn't even check my email without dodging pop-up windows, teasing me with the promise of their tawdry secrets: "Hilary Swank tells all about Chad's substance abuse problem!" I mean... Seriously? Putting aside the obvious question of who ********* cares, there was the sadder feeling of a two-time Oscar winner ratting out her ex-tv star ex-husband (whom she forgot to thank in her acceptance speech) after dumping him. Why would she do such a graceless, tacky thing? Then it all clicked: she wanted the cover of Vanity Fair. And she got it.
The fact is, spilling an ugly secret is the price of admission for the cover of Vanity Fair. And it's corporate policy. Just ask Terri Hatcher, who tried to peddle "I got dumped by Clooney and/or Seacrest" and ended up having to go with "my uncle molested me" to get the cover. Anderson Cooper revealed "for the first time" the tragic details of his brother's suicide, and became one of the few men to grace the cover. Jennifer Aniston practically subjected herself to a full cavity search to get the cover. And of course there's perennial fave Nicole Kidman, who has really mastered the art of giving V.F. readers emotional, in-depth interviews that reveal absolutely nothing. In fact, other wanna-be cover victims should take a page from Nic's book; she's great at gaming the system.

But I don't really blame Vanity Fair for the current pop culture of confession. In fact, I blame Oprah. She legitimized and encouraged the notion that celebrities have to reveal hideous secrets to become human, and humans have to reveal hideous secrets to become celebrities. It's probably not a coincidence that a woman like Oprah, who was raised reciting scripture in Mississippi churches from the age of three, would become the nation's pastor, hosting afternoon confessionals. Every weekday afternoon, she leads her flock of 25 million into one side of the sacred booth, to hear what co-opted guests will whisper through the partition.


here's the link to the whole article: Vanity Fair Cover Issue
bywayoftexas
thank you red! happy.gif i remembered the biography thread and ran down this description, which i find engaging:

QUOTE(polaris @ Dec 13 2005, 10:02 PM)
Posted on the Bloomsbury Publishing's website at:
http://www.bloomsbury.com/rights/details.a...ction=ad&list=&


"Kidman"
David Thomson
Published: September 2006

Could one see a magazine deciding that Julia Roberts or Jennifer Lopez or Angelina Jolie were ‘intriguing’? There is something mysterious and not quite settled with Nicole Kidman. That’s why David Thomson, one of the world’s greatest writers on film, knew he wanted to write about her, because while there may (just) be more attractive women on the screen, and even more consistent actresses, there isn’t any modern career that has so transformed itself. It’s as if Nicole Kidman suddenly decided no, I’m not just Mrs Tom, I’m not just a nice red-headed Sheila, I’m an actress, a businesswoman, I’m something — and I’m going to show you all.

How else does one reconcile the Kidman of the early and middle 1990s, the woman who was so often pretty but not much else in Days of Thunder, Billy Bathgate, Far and Away, Malice, Batman Forever, The Portrait of a Lady and even Eyes Wide Shut, with the steady progression of Moulin Rouge, The Others and Birthday Girl, and then The Hours, Cold Mountain and others? Not all her recent films are good and she’s not a triumph in all of them — but she is a dangerous actress, a risk-taker, someone pushing at her own talent.

This is a biography of an Australian girl who has become world famous. It’s also the record of an actress as she grew. The book is a vivid portrait, a searching treatment of acting and of a business career, but also a tribute to someone who has it in her to move millions of strangers.
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like it or not mr. thompson, you're a fan. tongue.gif
archer
QUOTE(RedSatinDoll @ Jul 18 2006, 06:41 PM)
...an interview with Thompson in which he talks about his (varied and very interesting) career as a writer; I shall look for that article so I can post the link.


RedSatinDoll, are you thinking about this link ?

interview with D.Thompson



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In any case, my tendancy is to denegrate myself rather than Nicole  (it isn't Nicole's fault that I "dig" her, to use the '60's phrase. Why should I put HER down for my own emotional states?) Perhaps in part because my fandom arises from emotional identification with qualities her characters bring forth on screen, in which I see echoes of my own life, situation and personality, or of people I know and love.  Whereas to Mr. Thompson, Nicole will always be the mysterious "other" (female) rather "self" (male). And that "other" is invariably identified with those qualities we wish we possessed - and those we wish we did not, everything messy and emotional and irrational within ourselves.
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RedSatinDoll, "to denigrate yourself rather than Nicole" , very magnanimous and noble of you ! but it's unfair... for you. lol.gif
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(archer @ Jul 19 2006, 05:00 AM)
RedSatinDoll, are you thinking about this link ?

interview with D.Thompson
RedSatinDoll, "to denigrate yourself rather than Nicole" , very magnanimous and noble of you ! but it's unfair... for you.  lol.gif
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Perhaps...but it's just one of my quirks, I'm afraid.

And yes that is one of the two links I had in mind (you sent that to me previously and I enjoyed it very much) so thank you very much!

BTW I forgot to mention that the new Vanity Fair finally showed up in the area and I got myself a copy (It's mine! All mine!) This is one of those times when it was worth it - the article by Bosworth is fascinating and seeing the scans just isn't the same as seeing the photo of Nicole on paper. The first time I read the article, I looked at that photo and her eyes- those haunted eyes - mesmerized me. The second night, it was the hands that caught and held my attention for reasons I can't begin to put into words. When they say she's "in character" they mean it - even her hands and arms seem to belong to someone else and look familiar and yet completely unfamiliar.
kiha
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RedSatinDoll,Jul 20 2006, 07:23 AM]
The first time I read the article, I looked at that photo and her eyes- those haunted eyes - mesmerized me.  The second night, it was the hands that caught and held my attention for reasons I can't begin to put into words.  When they say she's "in character" they mean it - even her hands and arms seem to belong to someone else and look familiar and yet completely unfamiliar.


I already can not wait for this movie to come out, but your words about how just in the photos you can see how into this part she is makes me want to see it all the more.

Thanks RS huggle.gif
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(kiha @ Jul 19 2006, 04:40 PM)
I already can not wait for this movie to come out, but your words about how just in the photos you can see how into this part she is makes me want to see it all the more.

Thanks RS huggle.gif
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You're quite welcome. Just doing my duty as a dedicated Nicole Kidman-Urban fan.
Michelle Chi
Thanks!! beatingheart.gif
But I don't know the name in Chinese!
I need to wait!!
Meisha
QUOTE(Michelle Chi @ Jul 20 2006, 09:06 PM)
Thanks!! beatingheart.gif
But I don't know the name in Chinese!
I need to wait!!
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Welcome to NKU, Michelle! wave.gif

I believe I have seen the Chinese press call this film (Fur) as 皮毛.
Michelle Chi
Thank you!! huggle.gif
Yes,I saw that before...But I thought they just translate it..(The name is a little strange I thought..........So I didn't believe!!)
And now I sould believe it><
polaris
Thanks to all who contributed. That is really an awesome and disconcerting photograph of NK. It looks like something Diane Arbus might have done herself.

Pat Bosworth appears to be taking a cautionary position about the film, and one wouldn't blame her for being concerned about whether the film does justice to the subject matter or not. She says that the essence of Arbus is there, but seems quite guarded about it. Nice to know from her (first-hand) that NK left her a message acknowledging her gift. It was a good thing to do, and shows that NK takes her work, her opportunities and her connections seriously.
skankyoldwhore
QUOTE(polaris @ Jul 23 2006, 02:37 PM)
Thanks to all who contributed. That is really an awesome and disconcerting photograph of NK. It looks like something Diane Arbus might have done herself.

Pat Bosworth appears to be taking a cautionary position about the film, and one wouldn't blame her for being concerned about whether the film does justice to the subject matter or not. She says that the essence of Arbus is there, but seems quite guarded about it. Nice to know from her (first-hand) that NK left her a message acknowledging her gift. It was a good thing to do, and shows that NK takes her work, her opportunities and her connections seriously.
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I think it is because the film as she said is not an adaptation of her book, a biography, but quite a fictional take of her life with some facts used in guiding it. I think she is just pleased to see Arbus on the screen after some 20 years of the project being passed around lol.gif.
consuelo
That photograph of Nicole in character has life. Just look at those very expressive eyes and pose.
Meisha
QUOTE(Michelle Chi @ Jul 21 2006, 09:37 PM)
Thank you!! huggle.gif
Yes,I saw that before...But I thought they just translate it..(The name is a little strange I thought..........So I didn't believe!!)
And now I sould believe it><
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I would agree with your observation. I hope they get a better Chinese title when this film is distributed in the Greater China market (China, Taiwan, Hong Kong). The recent Nic films distributed in that market all have Chinese titles that are not simply literal translations, for example: Bewitched 家有仙妻, The Interpreter 翻译风波, Birth 重生.
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(kiki @ Jul 18 2006, 08:06 PM)
i think we're all waay past this question as she's fully established now- on her own terms actually. great analysis red.  thumbsup.gif  i find it quite idiotic that people take such offense in admitting that they're a fan of someone. same goes for the detractors who i always have a suspicion on.  happy.gif  anyway, i read an article about how someone lands a vanity fair cover. quite interesting actually. it mentions nicole and how she's mastered this game. i don't think the title necessarily applies to her (supported by the fact that the author himself said she does not reveal anything but it always works) read this:

How To Sell Your Soul for the Cover of Vanity Fair!
Bill Robinson
Mon Jul 10, 1:04 AM ET


Like most people, I don't often think about Hilary Swank. Or her husband Chad Lowe. I've met them a couple times in the course of work, and they seemed lovely. So it was surprising when my computer started insisting I read about their marriage. Suddenly, I couldn't even check my email without dodging pop-up windows, teasing me with the promise of their tawdry secrets: "Hilary Swank tells all about Chad's substance abuse problem!" I mean... Seriously? Putting aside the obvious question of who ********* cares, there was the sadder feeling of a two-time Oscar winner ratting out her ex-tv star ex-husband (whom she forgot to thank in her acceptance speech) after dumping him. Why would she do such a graceless, tacky thing? Then it all clicked: she wanted the cover of Vanity Fair. And she got it.
The fact is, spilling an ugly secret is the price of admission for the cover of Vanity Fair. And it's corporate policy. Just ask Terri Hatcher, who tried to peddle "I got dumped by Clooney and/or Seacrest" and ended up having to go with "my uncle molested me" to get the cover. Anderson Cooper revealed "for the first time" the tragic details of his brother's suicide, and became one of the few men to grace the cover. Jennifer Aniston practically subjected herself to a full cavity search to get the cover. And of course there's perennial fave Nicole Kidman, who has really mastered the art of giving V.F. readers emotional, in-depth interviews that reveal absolutely nothing. In fact, other wanna-be cover victims should take a page from Nic's book; she's great at gaming the system.

But I don't really blame Vanity Fair for the current pop culture of confession. In fact, I blame Oprah. She legitimized and encouraged the notion that celebrities have to reveal hideous secrets to become human, and humans have to reveal hideous secrets to become celebrities. It's probably not a coincidence that a woman like Oprah, who was raised reciting scripture in Mississippi churches from the age of three, would become the nation's pastor, hosting afternoon confessionals. Every weekday afternoon, she leads her flock of 25 million into one side of the sacred booth, to hear what co-opted guests will whisper through the partition.


here's the link to the whole article: Vanity Fair Cover Issue
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Thanks for the transcript, kiki. The author makes very valid points, but if you compare Nicole's interviews with some of the others she mentions, its just not the same thing. Nicole has indeed mastered the game - since '01 especially (she was oftentimes less cautious before that - but she's been burned and learned since then). If you read her Vanity Fair interviews, she actually says very little and certainly reveals next to nothing about the juicy things the magazine really wants to know about (*you know who*) and I assume she'll take a similar tack regarding her current marriage (albeit for different reasons.) She leaves it to the interviewer to pull up all the purple prose they can muster and make their own guesses/
assumptions about her. The media was eager for her to give up nasty secrets and dish dirt about her marriage - but to my knowledge she never has, and that "mystery" keeps the press (and the public) coming back.

Whereas the current cover story - Ms. Swank says things about her ex (or soon to be ex? I can't keep up) husband that left my jaw hanging, and struck me as completely disrespectful of him and their 13 years together. Certainly she was willing to dish dirt - there is NO comparison between her interview and Nicole's last two interviews for Vanity Fair. It's obvious who can be trusted with a secret and who can't.
friendlyfox
Do you think so Red? I know Nicole is always very discreet about her previous marraige and never says anything bad about Tom and she wins a lot of admiration for that. She usually manages to be sucked into the odd clanger in her interviews though lol.gif

I do agree she is learning more and more not to do that. I suspect Lauren Bacall may have helped her here (in fact there was some mention of this in an interview with Lauren at the time of Birth from memory).

Is it anything to do with Oprah? I thought it was more the interviewers are more trained in learning how to lull the interviewee into a false sense of security. I remember once being interviewed by a TV reporter who kept on nodding her head up and down and being so encouraging and I remember mentally fighting the empathy I was starting to feel with her. You need to keep your wits about you at all times to make sure you do not say something you do not mean to say, or say something that can be misinterpreted.
nicnutvn
QUOTE(bywayoftexas @ Jul 19 2006, 03:28 PM)
thank you redhappy.gif  i remembered the biography thread and ran down this description, which i find engaging:
like it or not mr. thompson, you're a fan.  tongue.gif
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I am reading the article and thinking about that point of view.
Thanks you for your quotation! I am so lazy to find the old post. Yours helped me a lot.
marilyn
QUOTE(kiki @ Jul 18 2006, 06:06 PM)
How To Sell Your Soul for the Cover of Vanity Fair!
Bill Robinson
Mon Jul 10, 1:04 AM ET

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And of course there's perennial fave Nicole Kidman, who has really mastered the art of giving V.F. readers emotional, in-depth interviews that reveal absolutely nothing. In fact, other wanna-be cover victims should take a page from Nic's book; she's great at gaming the system.
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here's the link to the whole article: Vanity Fair Cover Issue
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Kiki, thanks for the article. rose4.gif rose4.gif

I believe sincerity is the key to people’s hearts. IMHO, Nicole’s interviews worked because she revealed herself in her interviews; at least that’s what has been keeping me intrigued. She is always so open about herself - her feelings, her reflections, her values, her acting philosophy etc. Her openness about herself allows readers to identify themselves with her in many circumstances. Her thoughts on acting have been an eye-opening revelation to me. Many times, reading or watching her interviews made me feel like she was showing me her growing process and leading me to her wonderland of acting.

I think “revealing dirt” may get people’s attention at first, but it won’t keep their interests long. My first impression on Ms. Swank’s VF cover was pure shock and my aftershock reaction was "I am not going to read that interview."
skankyoldwhore
QUOTE(marilyn @ Jul 25 2006, 12:18 AM)
Kiki, thanks for the article.  rose4.gif  rose4.gif

I believe sincerity is the key to people’s hearts.  IMHO, Nicole’s interviews worked because she revealed herself in her interviews; at least that’s what has been keeping me intrigued.  She is always so open about herself - her feelings, her reflections, her values, her acting philosophy etc.  Her openness about herself allows readers to identify themselves with her in many circumstances.  Her thoughts on acting have been an eye-opening revelation to me.  Many times, reading or watching her interviews made me feel like she was showing me her growing process and leading me to her wonderland of acting.

I think “revealing dirt” may get people’s attention at first, but it won’t keep their interests long.  My first impression on Ms. Swank’s VF cover was pure shock and my aftershock reaction was "I am not going to read that interview."
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Not many celebrities think or talk the way NK does, that's why it irritates me to no end when her words are twisted just so they read or sound sensational. It is almost as if her thoughts cannot be handled. It is only recently that I have read three articles, one in the Times where a columnist read her LHJ article and applauded her for being one of the straightest talking celebs out there, someone who speaks sincerely without drama and sees life how it should be seen, the other article 2 were written during the wedding, where one columnist said NK has always remained the same, she hasn't compromised herself just so she would be liked, the other one praised her for speaking out about being a single mother, who has a certain status and how that affects the matters of the heart and how she was able to meet someone and get married the way she did.
I just saw her Diane Sawyer article of 2003 when promoting Cold Mountain, Sawyer asked her if she was happy and she quoted a wonderful phrase from The Hours, explained what it meant and how she takes life. She didn't proclaim that "yes, I am happy." as most celebs would have done, simply because they like to be seen as always in a great place. She is always very honest, quite realistic in her interviews, she is one of the few non-mannequins out there in celeb land.
Like Isabel in PoaL, if she wants to cry, she will cry, if she feels like smiling, she will smile and if not then she won't. That's life.
I always say some celebs will do well to read what she says and watch how she does things. She is one of the best role models of today, if I may say so, one who carries herself with dignity and the way she carries herself in public, I believe her family are always proud of her.
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(skankyoldwhore @ Jul 24 2006, 04:05 PM)
Not many celebrities think or talk the way NK does, that's why it irritates me to no end when her words are twisted just so they read or sound sensational.  It is almost as if her thoughts cannot be handled.  It is only recently that I have read three articles, one in the Times where a columnist read her LHJ article and applauded her for being one of the straightest talking celebs out there, someone who speaks sincerely without drama and sees life how it should be seen, the other article 2 were written during the wedding, where one columnist said NK has always remained the same, she hasn't compromised herself just so she would be liked, the other one praised her for speaking out about being a single mother, who has a certain status and how that affects the matters of the heart and how she was able to meet someone and get married the way she did. 
I just saw her Diane Sawyer article of 2003 when promoting Cold Mountain, Sawyer asked her if she was happy and she quoted a wonderful phrase from The Hours, explained what it meant and how she takes life.  She didn't proclaim that "yes, I am happy." as most celebs would have done, simply because they like to be seen as always in a great place.  She is always very honest, quite realistic in her interviews, she is one of the few non-mannequins out there in celeb land. 
Like Isabel in PoaL, if she wants to cry, she will cry, if she feels like smiling, she will smile and if not then she won't.  That's life. 
I always say some celebs will do well to read what she says and watch how she does things.  She is one of the best role models of today, if I may say so, one who carries herself with dignity and the way she carries herself in public, I believe her family are always proud of her.
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Not at all unlike the way moderators (and others) all across the "world wide net" could stand to watch and learn and take lessons in civility from FriendlyFox, I dare say.

And actually, watching Nicole go through her divorce - with great dignity - helped me decide NOT to break up my own personal relationship, because I found myself asking "Do I want to inflict that sort of heartbreak on someone else?"
bywayoftexas
QUOTE(nicnutvn @ Jul 24 2006, 08:39 AM)
I am reading the article and thinking about  that point of view.
Thanks you for your quotation! I am so lazy to find the old post. Yours helped me a lot.
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you're welcome! happy.gif i give the nku search feature a workout.

i loved nicole on david letterman when promoting bewitched! dave put her on the spot with questions about russell crowe and an ex and she handled herself beautifully. she mentioned getting herself in hot water, but her very girlish "daaayyyve" and giggle were endearing and when pressed, she talked about being there for a good friend and being happy for an ex if he's in love. she has a way of revealing just enough about herself, but if she feels cornered, she's not afraid to say "let's move on." i've yet to see nicole say or do anything to embarrass herself or her family.

i'm pleased to have missed ms. swank's vf interview. looking.gif
scarlett
QUOTE(bywayoftexas @ Jul 25 2006, 03:38 PM)
i'm pleased to have missed ms. swank's vf interview.  looking.gif
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Ditto that, Texas. Talk about selling your soul. I guess it's easier for someone like Nicole to garner a cover but the less compelling Swank shouldn't have betrayed her ex so. I would think it might hurt his career further - and all for a magazine.
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(bywayoftexas @ Jul 25 2006, 03:38 PM)
you're welcome!  happy.gif  i give the nku search feature a workout.

i loved nicole on david letterman when promoting bewitched!  dave put her on the spot with questions about russell crowe and an ex and she handled herself beautifully.  she mentioned getting herself in hot water, but her very girlish "daaayyyve" and giggle were endearing and when pressed, she talked about being there for a good friend and being happy for an ex if he's in love.  she has a way of revealing just enough about herself, but if she feels cornered, she's not afraid to say "let's move on."  i've yet to see nicole say or do anything to embarrass herself or her family.

i'm pleased to have missed ms. swank's vf interview.  looking.gif
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On the other hand, the interview with Sheryl Crow was interesting and worth the read - she seems to have taken a page from Nicole's book (I've never read any earlier interviews with Ms. Crow) and she steadfastly refuses to dish dirt on her break-up with Lance Armstrong, although the interviewer pokes and prods and needles her about it. She is however honest about the trauma and hurt of going through cancer on top of the breakup, and so Sheryl comes off with an admirable and discreet dignity that much reminds me of Nicole's interviews during the "divorce" phase of her life. (And the interviewer was inadvertently more honest than usual about making attempts to "get at the truth". As if it were ANYONE'S business or right to know. I don't think "emotional trauma and scandal" is covered by the Freedom of Information Act.)
scarlett
QUOTE(RedSatinDoll @ Jul 25 2006, 08:34 PM)
On the other hand, the interview with Sheryl Crow was interesting and worth the read - she seems to have taken a page from Nicole's book (I've never read any earlier interviews with Ms. Crow) and she steadfastly refuses to dish dirt on her break-up with Lance Armstrong, although the interviewer pokes and prods and needles her about it.  She is however honest about the trauma and hurt of going through cancer on top of the breakup, and so Sheryl comes off with an admirable and discreet dignity that much reminds me of Nicole's interviews during the "divorce" phase of her life. (And the interviewer was inadvertently more honest than usual about making attempts to "get at the truth".  As if it were ANYONE'S business or right to know.  I don't think "emotional trauma and scandal" is covered by the Freedom of Information Act.)
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That is the quintissential difference. Explaining how a certain event in your life is one thing but going into the details about why or how your partner did you in is another thing. Swank could have mused about how difficult it was, and opined on her love for him without mentioning his own demons (which I believe were his to reveal) would have been the higher ground. However, maybe she isn't media savvy enough - or the magazine pushed her hard enough that she broke. I'd like to think that as earnest and actress she is, she didn't intend to spill all those details but by the cover, you can tell she wants badly to change her image from the hefty and masculine roles to something more feminine the public hasn't seen. But still, the sell-out diminishes it for me. I'd feel like such a rat even if the truth is worse than she even tells. (need I remind you I have NOT read the article). I'm always tempted to subscribe but feel I'm caught in a seesaw of too much and too little from the cover stories. Maybe being newer to the game she spoke before she had a second to retract and regret....
bywayoftexas
QUOTE(scarlett @ Jul 25 2006, 05:29 PM)
Ditto that, Texas. Talk about selling your soul. I guess it's easier for someone like Nicole to garner a cover but the less compelling Swank shouldn't have betrayed her ex so. I would think it might hurt his career further - and all for a magazine.
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i wonder if she consciously sold her soul for the cover, was lured into a false sense of security by the interviewer, or was looking for public validation by shifting the blame for the demise of her marriage from her career to her husband? regardless of her motives, the damage is done and she looks suspect.
scarlett
QUOTE(bywayoftexas @ Jul 26 2006, 12:20 AM)
i wonder if she consciously sold her soul for the cover, was lured into a false sense of security by the interviewer, or was looking for public validation by shifting the blame for the demise of her marriage from her career to her husband?  regardless of her motives, the damage is done and she looks suspect.
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Could have felt secure but there are no press releases disputing the slant on the story from her end (that I've heard). Whether by his personal problems or her success in the face of his failure (in perspective) then I can't imagine why she would choose one over the other. She shouldn't apologize for her success...it's too often the other way around for women....but all the same...some things are private - especially if you've sought help and conquered your demons. It's his story, not hers, but she's on the cover. Oh, it's just a shame, especially if that's not what she meant by it.
bywayoftexas
QUOTE(RedSatinDoll @ Jul 25 2006, 07:34 PM)
On the other hand, the interview with Sheryl Crow was interesting and worth the read - she seems to have taken a page from Nicole's book (I've never read any earlier interviews with Ms. Crow) and she steadfastly refuses to dish dirt on her break-up with Lance Armstrong, although the interviewer pokes and prods and needles her about it.  She is however honest about the trauma and hurt of going through cancer on top of the breakup, and so Sheryl comes off with an admirable and discreet dignity that much reminds me of Nicole's interviews during the "divorce" phase of her life. (And the interviewer was inadvertently more honest than usual about making attempts to "get at the truth".  As if it were ANYONE'S business or right to know.  I don't think "emotional trauma and scandal" is covered by the Freedom of Information Act.)
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sheryl and lance both refused to be sucked in. i've read interviews about sheryl's cancer diagnosis and lance's offer to hop a plane, but ultimately sheryl decided it would be too painful and her focus had to be recovery. i gained a tremendous amount of respect for them after their handling of the break up.
Meisha
QUOTE(skankyoldwhore @ Jul 13 2006, 02:48 PM)
A bimbo as Thomson seems intent on calling Nicole couldn't have achieved what NK did in her teen years an as actress.  The term, bimbo, is about as far away from NK as you can get.
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One of my pet peeves is seeing NK being referred as "bimbo". sob.gif thumbsdown.gif The other pet peeve is when I see some articles continue to refer to her as a “starlet”. sob.gif thumbsdown.gif
Meisha
Thanks, Kiki, for the “How To Sell Your Soul for the Cover of Vanity Fair!” article!! rose4.gif The discussion that followed that post is just one example of why I love the NKU board. Members are very open to having intelligent, mature and thought-provoking discussions. clap.gif

It’s very sad that Ms. Swank felt the need to dish (or diss?) on her soon to be ex. One of the things that endeared NK to many people was the dignity and grace in how she handled her divorce. thumbsup.gif clap.gif I guess the Hollywood crowd, for example, must have felt a sigh of relief, too, as many of them are friends to both her and TC. Nobody really wants to be “caught in the middle” and having to choose sides in a marital dispute.

On the subject of getting on a magazine cover, NK is one of the most sought-after actresses. I recently posted the writeup of the Editorial Director of Vogue China, which explained why they selected Nicole for the cover of one of their inaugural editions:

“Of course there are many movie stars who want to grace magazine covers. One of our selection criteria is whether this star embodies the Vogue style. This means in addition to having a high standing in the fashion world, the person must have an uplifting spirit. We believe that Nicole Kidman is a very Vogue woman. She not only has extraordinary looks, thumbsup.gif dresses up with style,thumbsup.gif has outstanding career achievements, thumbsup.gif but also in the aftermath of her divorce from Tom Cruise, has refused to be fallen apart. beatingheart.gif huggle.gif Even while she had publicly admitted to having a fragile side, she never gave up, and managed to elevate her acting career to the next level. Martini.gif clap.gif Her appearance has become even more luminescent. beatingheart.gif beatingheart.gif We hope our readers when admiring her beautiful photographs in this edition can also learn a bit more about the inner world of this very Vogue woman."

You can view the rest of that post here:
http://www.nicolekidmanunited.invisionzone...ndpost&p=122952
skankyoldwhore
QUOTE(Meisha @ Jul 26 2006, 03:14 PM)
One of my pet peeves is seeing NK being referred as "bimbo". sob.gif  thumbsdown.gif  The other pet peeve is when I see some articles continue to refer to her as a “starlet”.  sob.gif  thumbsdown.gif
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Thank you for that. I am glad it isn't just me! She is a STAR.
scarlett
QUOTE(skankyoldwhore @ Jul 26 2006, 08:19 AM)
I wouldn't say Swank was new to the game, she's done enough of these things to know when and how to handle them, I should think, sometimes people just don't know how to guide or guard their tongues.
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She's certainly new to getting a cover for that magazine. She probably had to promise some serious dish in order to get it. That takes some guts and shows just how ambitious she is. Not that the woman isn't already successful with two Oscars but she's never viewed as ultra feminine considering her Oscar roles. This is an image make over but to what end...
skankyoldwhore
QUOTE(scarlett @ Jul 26 2006, 10:22 PM)
She's certainly new to getting a cover for that magazine. She probably had to promise some serious dish in order to get it. That takes some guts and shows just how ambitious she is. Not that the woman isn't already successful with two Oscars but she's never viewed as ultra feminine considering her Oscar roles. This is an image make over but to what end...
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Sorry, scarlett, I already deleted my post.
scarlett
QUOTE(skankyoldwhore @ Jul 26 2006, 08:48 AM)
Sorry, scarlett, I already deleted my post.
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Now you've lost me...what post and why? Oh never mind - I see you've taken out what I've responded to. Do you want me to remove my post with your comments?lol.gif
skankyoldwhore
QUOTE(scarlett @ Jul 27 2006, 12:20 AM)
Now you've lost me...what post and why?  Oh never mind - I see you've taken out what I've responded to. Do you want me to remove my post with your comments?lol.gif
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That's alright lol.gif, I just don't understand why she would do such a thing so I am choosing not to waste time on discussing her lol.gif.
kiki
i think these stars can learn a thing or two from nicole. it's as simple as that. i also don't get celebs who always pretend their lives are perfect and they're unconditionally happy. nicole had a tough time and did not pretend she was happy after the divorce which coincided with the promotion of films. there's a difference as she was being professional and has respect for both herself and the industry. that is a class act. rose2.gif
janjan
Yes, it's all about discretion. I think the one word that people like to describe Nicole is "classy". The way she dresses especially at awards shows, the way she handled such a public divorce, the way she talks, even that bearing of hers- there's always a certain sense of class and elegance about her. I think this also where that perception of her being aloof and cold comes from. I remember Oprah and Letterman as well, saying something like "how does a guy meet you? i'd be so intimidated!" Also Will Ferrell with how nervous he was of meeting her because she's NICOLE KIDMAN. But she's not perfect and like the rest of us, has had her share of failures, has her grand flaws, has done some stupid things, has some not-so-good opinions about certain people, etc, etc.
I was thinking that Nicole is not really that much different from Jessica Simpson, Swank, her ex-husband. Probaly the one major difference is that Nicole is just good at keeping things discreet. But then that's it! If Nicole can excise such tact, and have that self-restraint, then the ocean is indeed that wide. This is what separates her from other celebrities out there. If a person has the good sense to know the things to say in public, the kind of things you have to keep private, that person probably applies that same good sense in most aspects of his/her life. We only see glimpses of what a celebrity is like and we can't pretend to know them enough to pass judgement on their character. However, I also think how a celebrity CHOOSES to handle himself in public (is it ok to do this, will I shame my family if I share this) says a lot of the person behind that image.
Sure, Nicole's personal life plays a part in her career but I love what Roger Ebert said when he was reviewing "The Interpreter". He said this was a movie what reminded us why Sean Penn and Nicole Kidman are Hollywood stars- because they can act. clap.gif
janjan
In somewhat related news:
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Research gives celebrities a star role
Lara Sinclair
27jul06

FPC'S Star magazine may have crashed to earth two months ago but publishers remain convinced there are still undiscovered life forms on planet celebrity.

Northern & Shell Pacific is about to relaunch its celebrity-centric title OK! as a weekly after originally launching it in September 2004 as a monthly.

Chief executive and publisher Andrew Cowell declined to make circulation predictions for the weekly edition, but as a monthly OK! sells about 78,000 copies. "When we launched in Australia, we developed the market and we expect to do exactly that as a weekly," Cowell said.

Northern & Shell, which also launched OK! as a monthly in Britain in 1993 before taking it weekly three years later, will name the relaunch date in the next two months.

OK! is one of the few celebrity-friendly magazines, along with Time Inc South Pacific's In Style, that avoids rumour and speculation of the "a close friend said" variety, preferring to run generally favourable interviews with the stars.

Yesterday Time Inc launched research that not only explains why publishers are continuing to invest in celebrity magazines but also goes some way towards explaining why we are so obsessed with particular Hollywood stars.

The project, which Who Weekly's US sister title People may replicate, included interviews with 12 focus groups and an online survey of 2500 Australian women aged between 18 and 44.

According to research and strategy director Mark Chesterfield, Australian women use celebrities, defined mostly as Hollywood A-list, to pinpoint communities of people with whom they identify.

"In the past community was about neighbourhoods or political affiliation," Chesterfield said. "For Australian women, celebrity is a new community. Celebrities have even come to represent a social conscience.

"Celebrities are a way to start a conversation with others who are like-minded," he said.

The research showed women could be segmented into five groups according to the celebrities they liked and the reasons they identified with them: socialisers, stylists, straight shooters, insecures and hopefuls.

Socialisers, who read magazines for news and gossip and identify with celebrities such as Reese Witherspoon, Angelina Jolie and Heath Ledger, were the largest group.

Stylists want the latest fashion look, are interested in diets and fitness and are influential in recommending new products to others. They favour Mischa Barton, Jennifer Aniston, Orlando Bloom and David Beckham.

Straight shooters, characterised by a feeling of being in control of their busy lives, prefer in-depth interviews with their favourite stars, who included Nicole Kidman and Microsoft founder Bill Gates.

For the insecures, who love seeing celebrities at their most real, favourites include Sandra Bullock and television relationships guru Dr Phil McGraw.

A fairytale theme ran through the last group, the hopefuls, who were older women obsessed by royalty and who are apparently driving the popularity of soapie star-turned-tennis-wife Bec Hewitt and Britney Spears.

Chesterfield said our obsession with celebrities was a significant social shift rather than a passing fad. "They are powerful because they sell product and they sell media," he said.

Time will use the segmentation research to recommend its celebrity titles Who and In Style to advertisers and to help clients understand which celebrities their audience relates to.

It can also be overlaid with Roy Morgan data to identify other media the groups consume.

Time managing director David Burkett said the research would also be used to help fine-tune its editorial products, which are competing in an increasingly crowded market.

While Star folded after six months, with FPC Magazines opting against the sizeable marketing investment needed to make it work, other publishers say the appetite for celebrity gossip continues unabated.

Local magazines that devote substantial coverage to Hollywood celebrities include New Idea, NW, Who, Famous, OK! and Woman's Day.

With the exception of new entrant Famous, which has confirmed it will release audited sales figures in August, each of them increased circulation in the year to December, ranging from 2.1 per cent for Woman's Day to 7.6 per cent for New Idea.

Despite rumours that it is suffering from a lack of sales traction, sources said Pacific Magazines' Famous, which was launched in February, was selling about 90,000 copies an issue. Rivals said that was still about 50,000 short of where it needs to be to make a profit. Other publishers are probing a variety of niches expected to include a celebrity component.

Emap is expected to launch fashion-led weekly Grazia here after a new managing director -- replacing Rob Monro-Hall, who will return to Britain later this year -- is in place.

ACP's rumoured plans to launch another weekly are believed to have been put on hold while the company undergoes cost-cutting under new chief executive Ian Law.

But according to ACP Magazines commercial director Tim Trumper, more frequent contact with celebrities, boosted by the availability of information, is driving growth in advertising categories from retail to fashion, cosmetics and accessories.

"It's about what a celebrity was wearing last night and how can I get that look quickly," Trumper said.

In general, advertisers need no convincing that celebrities register strongly with consumers. Cosmetics companies such as L'Oreal regularly invest millions of dollars to sign celebrities such as actors Sarah Jessica Parker and Halle Berry to promote their products.

A global study released by ACNielsen earlier this week paired celebrities with the types of products they were considered most suitable to sell.

Kidman was identified with luxury wear and designer watches while Jolie was paired with lingerie and sunglasses. Brad Pitt, it appears, can sell almost anything to anyone. And he may well do so: according to American author Thomas Mucha, one in five advertisements now feature celebrities, up from one in 10 in 1995.

http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story...61-7582,00.html

I'm not sure about the categories they have there but out of the five and although I don't really feel in control most of the time, I'm proud to be a straight shooter. happy.gif
consuelo
QUOTE(Meisha @ Jul 26 2006, 04:14 PM)
One of my pet peeves is seeing NK being referred as "bimbo". sob.gif  thumbsdown.gif  The other pet peeve is when I see some articles continue to refer to her as a “starlet”.  sob.gif  thumbsdown.gif
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Yes, I *do not like* it when people call her bimbo or starlet. She is a big star, a very good, talented and Oscar winning actress, a topnotch product endorser and many more.
Nicole
Thanks foxy for the scans and the videos. Aussome!!
NicoleFan4Life
Thanks a bunch, foxy!
Luciano
Thanx Foxy!! happy.gif
kyfriend
Thanks to all three of you, Livia, Centergirl and Foxy for the scans--seems like we've been waiting forever for this movie, and waiting a few more months won't hurt me--just builds up the anticipation. This is exciting! Three days before her movie is released, Keith is releasing his new album! Does anyone think we might be lucky enough to see both of them sitting side beside at some of the late night talk shows promoting her movie and his album--that would be too good to hope for, but I bet these shows would pay top dollar to have them both on there--their ratings would go over the moon!
RedSatinDoll
QUOTE(kyfriend @ Jul 31 2006, 08:21 PM)
Thanks to all three of you, Livia, Centergirl and Foxy for the scans--seems like we've been waiting forever for this movie, and waiting a few more months won't hurt me--just builds up the anticipation.  This is exciting!  Three days before her movie is released, Keith is releasing his new album!  Does anyone think we might be lucky enough to see both of them sitting side beside at some of the late night talk shows promoting her movie and his album--that would be too good to hope for, but I bet these shows would pay top dollar to have them both on there--their ratings would go over the moon!
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Well....

skanky thinks not (if I understood her post on this or another thread correctly) and goodness knows she's often on the mark - but I can't help but hope the answer is "yes". (For reasons I shan't go into right at the moment.)
Meisha
QUOTE(kyfriend @ Jul 31 2006, 05:21 PM)
Thanks to all three of you, Livia, Centergirl and Foxy for the scans--seems like we've been waiting forever for this movie, and waiting a few more months won't hurt me--just builds up the anticipation.  This is exciting!  Three days before her movie is released, Keith is releasing his new album!  Does anyone think we might be lucky enough to see both of them sitting side beside at some of the late night talk shows promoting her movie and his album--that would be too good to hope for, but I bet these shows would pay top dollar to have them both on there--their ratings would go over the moon!
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This came up on another thread, and several folks did not think Keith and Nic will appear on the same show. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that they will, at least once. huggle.gif It will be a great coup for the talk show, or SNL, if they can have Keith be the musical guest, and Nic being there to promote her film. thumbsup.gif huggle.gif

btw .. I don't think these talk shows pay their guests.
elegant_fan
or if they hosted SNL together... lol *faints* rose4.gif


ps: guess what everyone ... i bought the Vaniety Fair magazine the other night!../. even though i had already read the whole thing here on NKU happy.gif rose4.gif
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